Feeling Good
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Book DetailDavid D. Burns, M.D., is a clinical psychiatrist. His bestselling Feeling Good: The New
Mood Therapy has sold more than three million copies to date.
Dr. Burns has become a popular lecturer for general audiences and mental health
professionals. Plus, a frequent guest on national radio and television programs.
Feeling Good -Summary
How Depression Occurs
In the United States, 5.3% of the population has depression. The lifetime risk of depression is
7-8% in adults and higher for women. Forty years ago, the mean age for the onset of
depression was 29.5. Today, it has halved to 14.5 years. This reduction in age can be
attributed to more significant mental health awareness and social media’s impact on the
younger generation. Though rates differ around the developed world, the incidence of
depressive illness has risen dramatically since 1900.
Prior to the 1980s, depression had been the cancer of the psychological world. Depression
was widespread but difficult to treat. Additionally, the taboos associated with it made the
problem worse for most people. Many of these same problems still persist today. As with
cancer, finding a ‘cure’ has been the holy grail of depression. Everything from Freudian
psychoanalysis to shock treatment has been applied to the problem. Although some of these
treatments have had initially promising results, the improvements have not been substantial
and are unsustainable. Subsequently, anti-depressants and other medications have been
introduced. Although these medications have changed some people’s lives, the problem of
depression is still more impactful today than in the past.
Dr. Burns provides an outline of how depression occurs:
1. An event takes place in the outside world that has the potential to be
experienced by you.
2. You interpret the event through a series of thoughts. These thoughts are called
your internal dialogue and impact on how you process the event.
3. Your feelings are created by your thoughts and not the actual event. In other
words, the way you think in any situation will determine how you will feel
about it.
Seeing Through Black Magic
In the history of psychiatry, depression has always been seen as an emotional disorder. As a
result, most therapy has aimed to help patients get in touch with their feelings. Subsequently,
most therapists have believed that maturity means opening up and expressing what’s inside.
This is an assumption based on the view that one’s feelings “…represent a higher reality, a
personal integrity, a truth beyond question.”
Despite these assumptions, there is a wealth of evidence suggesting depression is not an
emotional disorder. This point is supported by one of the most effective depressive treatments,
cognitive therapy, not focusing on emotions. Instead, cognitive therapy identifies cognition, or
our thoughts, as the cause of depression. The bad feelings associated with depression all stem
from negative thoughts. Therefore, treatment must focus on challenging and changing those
thoughts.
Burns includes a list of ten ‘cognitive distortions,’ such as all-or-nothing thinking,
overgeneralization, disqualifying the positive, jumping to conclusions, and giving ourselves
labels. By understanding these distortions, we can better understand the idea that ‘feelings
aren’t facts.’ Instead, feelings are only the reflections of our thoughts.
Cognitive Distortions
After introducing readers to the importance of cognition, David Burns outlines the underlying
factors. When you interpret an event as negative, you are engaging with cognitive distortions.
Burns describes these interpretations as cognitive distortions as you are creating distorted
thoughts that lead to unpleasant emotions. Occasionally, events are genuinely unpleasant and
need to be interpreted accordingly. However, we still have to remain realistic about these
interpretations. For people who suffer from mild levels of depression, those cognitive
distortions become habituated. Subsequently, these individuals start perceiving everything in
black and white. The following sections will cover the most common cognitive distortions
identified by David Burns
All-or-Nothing Thinking
Let’s say that you want to learn stand-up comedy. You took some classes. Then, after a
month, you decided to give it a shot and go live. You go on stage and start cracking the lamest
jokes because you are nervous, and it is your first time. The audience gets bored and leaves.
As a result, you start to think that you never have a chance to become a comedian. In fact, you
might even think that you are never going to be good at doing anything. This kind of
cognitive distortion is called “All-or-Nothing Thinking.” In essence, you are holding a belief
that you will either be good at this skill now or I never will be. This type of cognitive
distortion is conveying an exaggeration of a negative event. The event itself is negative, but
instead of perceiving it as a passing experience, you hold on to the negative associations.
Mental Filtering
This leads us to the second cognitive distortion, which is called Mental Filtering. Mental
filtering involves taking one negative experience from any situation and dwelling on it for an
extended period of time. No matter how much time you put into making valuable content,
there will be that one guy or girl who will leave a negative comment. They will filter all the
value and just leave a comment about the wrong punctuation in one paragraph. People who
perceive reality from a mental filter will always find something negative. Therefore, no matter
how hard you try to convince them that the event is actually positive, you will fail.
Subsequently, David Burns recommends never dwelling on the past as you no longer have
control over those decisions. Similarly, do not dwell on others’ opinions as people will always
find the negatives in any situation. Plus, you have no control over others’ opinions and
decisions.
Jumping to Conclusions
Imagine that you get hit by a car, so you’re on your way to the hospital. The doctors tell you
that you just got dizzy, and you’ll be ready to go home in three hours. However, you keep
thinking to yourself: “Oh my god, what if I got brain damage? And if my brain is damaged
will my girlfriend still want to go out with me?”
This type of cognitive distortion is called Jumping to Conclusions. This distortion involves
exaggerating your expectations and projecting to unrealistic conclusions. Specifically, this
form of cognitive distortion generally involves making a negative interpretation. This
interpretation is made even though no clear facts are supporting your conclusion.
Jumping to conclusions can be further broken down into two types:
a. Mind reading: You arbitrarily conclude that someone is reacting negatively to you, and you
don’t bother to check this out.
b. The Fortune Teller Error: You anticipate that things will turn out badly, and you feel
convinced that your prediction is an already-established fact.
Since the process of emotion formation happens in a fraction of a second, we have little to no
control over it. However, even if those thoughts get distorted, and you fall into a depression,
you still have a chance to re-construct them after their occurrence. You have the opportunity
to re-frame those distorted thoughts. Subsequently, you also have the opportunity to change
your mood. It is scary how one thought can have the power to change someone’s life for the
better or the worst.
Magnification and Minimization
“Perfection’ is man’s ultimate illusion. It simply doesn’t exist in the universe… If you are a
perfectionist, you are guaranteed to be a loser in whatever you do.”
When you magnify, you look at your errors, fears, or imperfections and exaggerate their
importance. This has also been called catastrophizing because you turn commonplace
negative events into nightmarish monsters.
In comparison, when you minimize, you inappropriately shrink things until they appear tiny.
Common examples are your own desirable qualities or others’ imperfections. This is also
called the “binocular trick.”