The creation of freedom for oneself and a sacred "No" even to duty -- for that, my brothers, the lion is needed. Thus Spoke Zarathustra

First kiss does the trick. The propitious moment. Something inside them goes pop. Ulysses

True happiness occurs only when you find the problems you enjoy having and enjoy solving. The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*Ck

How much reverence has a noble man for his enemies!--and such reverence is a bridge to love.--For he desires his enemy for himself, as his mark of distinction; he can endure no other enemy than one in whom there is nothing to despise and very much to honor! In contrast to this, picture "the enemy" as the man of ressentiment conceives him--and here precisely is his deed, his creation: he has conceived "the evil enemy," "the Evil One," and this in fact is his basic concept, from which he then evolves, as an afterthought and pendant, a "good one"--himself! Genealogy of Morals