Moments of their secret life together burst like stars upon his memory. Dubliners

To shrug it all off and wipe it clean--every annoyance and distraction--and reach utter stillness. Child's play. Book V

Fortunately analysis is not the only way to resolve inner conflicts. Life itself still remains a very effective therapist. Our Inner Conflicts: A Constructive Theory of Neurosis

In general, one must have value oneself in order freely and willingly to acknowledge value in another. This is the basis for the requirement that modesty accompany all merits, as well as the disproportionately loud praise for this virtue which alone, among all its sisters, is always added to the praise of anyone distinguished in some way by the person who dares to praise him, so as to conciliate the worthless and silence their wrath. For what is modesty if not false humility which someone with merits and advantages in a world teeming with perfidious envy uses to beg the pardon of those who have none? Someone who does not lay claim to merit because he in fact has none is being honest, not modest. The World As Will and Representation