Everything worthwhile in life is won through surmounting the associated negative experience. The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*Ck

[One of the company... said: ...is not this the direct contrary of what we admitted before—that out of the greater came the less and out of the less the greater, and that opposites are simply generated from opposites; whereas now this seems to be utterly denied.] ...then we were speaking of opposites in the concrete, and now of the essential opposite which, as is affirmed, neither in us nor in nature can ever be at variance with itself... these essetial opposites will never, as we maintain, admit of generation into or out of one another. The Trials Of Socrates

'Tis as human a little story as paper could well carry. Finnegan's Wake

All I really wanted was to try and live the life that was spontaneously welling up within me. Why was that so very difficult? Demian